Fact or Fiction: 12-Year Olds Can Get Married in the U.S.

This is a fact!

While 18 is the minimum marriage age in most states, there are exceptions in every state that allow children younger than 18 to marry, typically with parental consent or judicial approval. Nine states still allow pregnancy exceptions to the marriage age. In fact, 27 states do not specify an age below which a child cannot marry, including California!

Where Is Child Marriage Most Common in the U.S.?

It is most common in West Virginia and Texas, where about seven of every 1,000 15- to 17-year-olds were married in 2014, compared to five of every 1,000 nationwide. Several other states in the South and the West, including Oklahoma, Arkansas, Tennessee, North Carolina, Nevada and California, also have above-average rates of child marriage.

Image Source: pewresearch.org

Image Source: pewresearch.org

A nonprofit called Unchained at Last compiled statistics for marriages from 2000 to 2012. They discovered that in 38 states, more than 167,000 children — almost all of them girls, some as young as 12 — were married during that period, mostly to men 18 or older. It is estimated that the total number of children wed in America between 2000 and 2010 was nearly 248,000. At least 31 percent were married to a spouse age 21 or older, although the actual number is probably higher, as some states did not provide spousal ages. These marriages occurred even in states that have statutory rape laws.

Many of the states that provided data included categories such as “14 and younger,” without specifying exactly how much younger some brides and grooms were. So while 12-year-old married children were found in Alaska, Louisiana and South Carolina’s, there may have been children younger than 12 wed in America between 2000 and 2010.

The data collected by Unchained at Last did not account for children wed in religious-only ceremonies or taken overseas to be married. For example, some children are wed in Islamic weddings before the age of 18, then wed again in civil ceremonies once they reach age 18. According to a survey by the Tahirih Justice Center, there appears to be an increasing number of forced child marriages among immigrant communities from countries like India, Pakistan, Bangladesh, Mexico, the Philippines, Yemen, Afghanistan, and Somalia.

Image Source: npr.org

Image Source: npr.org

One of the most notorious scandals involving child marriage is the Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints (FLDS), which is North America’s largest polygamist sect. The sect was run by Warren Jeffs, who wed several wives when they were 12 years old. Jeffs is now in prison for child sexual assault.

Warren Jeffs Image Source: salon.com

Warren Jeffs
Image Source: salon.com


Why is Child Marriage Harmful?

  • Women who marry at 18 or younger face a 23 percent higher risk of heart attack, diabetes, cancer and stroke than do women who marry between ages 19 and 25, due in part to added stress and forfeited education;
  • Women who wed before 18 have increased risk of developing various psychiatric disorders, even when controlling for socio-demographic factors;
  • American girls who marry before 19 are 50 percent more likely than their unmarried peers to drop out of high school and four times less likely to graduate from college;
  • A girl who marries young is 31 percent more likely to live in poverty when she is older;
  • Women who marry before 18 are three times more likely to be beaten by their spouses than women who wed at 21 or older.


Efforts to Ban Child Marriage 

There’s been a push for laws banning child marriage in states like New York and Virginia. No such law has been passed in California yet.

In 2016 Virginia passed a law banning most marriages of persons younger than 18, and removed the pregnancy exception. Under the new Virginia law, 16- and 17-year-olds must apply to become emancipated before they can marry. A judge evaluates whether a minor is being coerced to marry and may consider the age difference between a couple and a person’s criminal history in considering an application.

Some state lawmakers still resist passing legislation to end child marriage, fearing that such measures might unlawfully stifle religious freedom or because they believe marriage is the best solution for a teen pregnancy.

What do you think? Should marriage for anyone under the age of 18 be banned or should the exceptions for parental consent, pregnancy, or judicial approval remain in place?

4 comments on “Fact or Fiction: 12-Year Olds Can Get Married in the U.S.

  1. Avatar for Mary Mock mmock
  2. Avatar for Mary Mock mmock
    ozy on

    also DON`T throw unrealistic claim
    Islam prohibited the forced marriage

    girl MUST like the boy and marry the one she like.

    people acts belong to people not to the religion

    therfore Don’t say (Islamic marriage)

    any forced marriage is fails and the contract is illegal
    please go back to read Sahih Muslim book and you can see the religion guide regard this matter

    again, you have no problem seeing your little daughter having sex in the street with stranger and come back to you crying with baby in hand

    but you have problem to protect her and and search for that partner and sign legal marriage contract to protect your daughter and her baby!

    what human you are?

  3. Avatar for Mary Mock mmock
    Anita Vd Meer on

    never let a child get married no matter what the circumstances are.
    Because children can’t make those life chancing decisions.
    And parents are not always making decisions in best interest of there child.
    We can’t rely on that!
    and come on really!! a child with a spous older than 18 or 21 letting them get married. Is making it legal to have sex with a child (pedofile)
    If a child gets pregnant with an older man, the child needs to be in a safe environment and needs to get professional help to see if its a healthy relationship and if al that is good.
    Than they later can decide to get married at a legal age.
    I think its beter for the child and for the born child that they know that there parents where with each other by choice and love not by law or grandparents who dicided that that was for the best.

  4. Avatar for Mary Mock mmock
    Curtis Kendrick on

    History is a joke one man decided what we should do. Not saying I agree nevertheless we lock up people today for things that was once legal. Watch Beverly Hillbillies. At one time if you where not married by 13 you were considered over the hill. Just saying


Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *